It seems like talking about threesomes, open relationships and polyamory is all over the news in recent years. As the world continues to obey the old rituals of love and marriage, there are increasing numbers of couples who prefer to be experimental and practice consensual non-monogamy. If you’re bored of your old sex life and wish to try something new with your partner, maybe you’ve discussed the idea of having a threesome and inviting another man into your bedroom. If so, you likely are part of this new generational way of thinking.
But if you’re involved in a committed relationship, (whether married or single but committed), how do you go about having that threesome of your wildest dreams?
Sex therapists and relationship counselors all agree, if you’re interested in as uncomplicated a threesome as you can find, an escort is likely your best bet. Regardless of how you may feel morally about sex work, an escort isn’t going to be a threat to your relationship – hell, they won’t even be interested in being a threat – and they have a vested interest in your satisfaction (they always appreciate cultivating repeat customers) and mutual safety (for obvious reasons).
But why would a couple choose to try non-monogamous sexual encounters with a male escort?
If you and your partner have been discussing adding an additional male into your bedroom, the last thing you likely want to do is invite a single man who’s friends with either one or both of you. This is usually a recipe for disaster.
Couples also usually don’t want to deal with all the dangers of going online to websites like Craigslist or BackPage to find a playmate. When it’s casual sex they seek, there’s too much that could go wrong when trying to “hook up” with strangers from sites like these. You never know who or what you’re going to get.
When you want something done right, why not hire a pro?
Increasingly, couples are turning to male escorts to help them satisfy these cravings for intimacy and excitement in their relationships.
There are the 5 main reasons you may want to consider it:
- Male escorts are safer. In the past few years, numerous news stories around the country have reported innocent couples who have welcomed total strangers into their home for intimate encounters only to end up being robbed, assaulted, or even worse.
The way this crime works is simple. You and your spouse have a kid-free weekend coming up so you decide to post an ad on a website like Craigslist, advertising you’re looking for a single male to come over that night.
After receiving dozens of replies, you browse countless photos and finally decide which of the “lucky” guys you’ll invite over. You set up the “appointment” and give him the time and place to meet you for this wild night of fun.
Here lies the problem: You don’t have a clue who on earth you just gave your home address to. Is he a serial rapist? A pedophile? A convicted criminal? A wanted felon? You have no clue because you’ve never met him before. He’s just some random guy who sent you pictures of his penis off the Internet.
He comes over. You and your spouse are so hot and horny all you can think about is this wild threesome you’ve been fantasizing about. But when the time comes to make your wildest dreams come true, instead of pulling out a condom, he pulls out a loaded gun and your life is forever changed.
This crime can be perpetuated in several different ways. Some men will set up a date with you, come over, show you a great time, and then later call his friends and tell them all the nice, expensive things they noticed while in your home. A few days later your home is burglarized or even worse, a violent home invasion.
Even couples who try to play it smart and book a hotel for the night have fallen victim to these schemes. You give a random stranger your room number and instead of him coming over to have fun, he comes in and robs you both?
Male escorts are the safer alternative. Just like any service provider who comes to your home to clean your pool or landscape your yard, he’s there to provide a service. The last thing he wants to do is cause harm to you. He’s more worried about his own safety. A professional male escort has a vested interest in your satisfaction. He’s more interested in turning you into a repeat client, or even better, a source of referral business.
Safety is not just referring to your personal safety. A good escort is also likely to be health-tested regularly for STDs. There’s no telling what sort of health issues could develop from have sexual encounters with random strangers off the Internet.
- Male Escorts have experience dealing with couples. When you book a male escort, his priority is to provide total comfort and satisfaction to you. What a total waste of time it is to invite a man to your home or hotel room for the purposes of sex, only to find out he can’t ‘get it up’. 8 out of 10 couples that have attempted to set up casual encounters like these have experienced this. Maybe the guy is nervous. Maybe he’s never been naked in front of a couple before. Who knows the reason for the poor performance. Male escorts are accustomed to performing with couples. They have the talent, the experience, and the knowledge of how to effectively travel these waters so it comes second nature to them. As a result, you end up experiencing an encounter that’s beyond your wildest dreams.
- Males Escorts are totally dependable and reliable. Ever went through the trouble of planning a night with a single guy only to have him stand you up and never even show. It’s more common than you think. In fact, even when promised with free sex, a large percentage of men will get nervous and flake out on you at the last minute. For some, it’s all about the chase. They approach you online just to see if they’ll be the one you invite over. Many never intend to show up, even if you send them an invitation.
Because male escorts are paid for their time and companionship, time is money. An escort will usually be very prompt, responsive, and communicate with you throughout the entire scheduling process. If you’re trying to create the perfect evening, a good escort can help you with the planning and even offer you suggestions. This leads to fewer disappointments, stress, and the more likelihood of an awesome experience.
- Male Escorts won’t stalk you. When you hire a professional, even though it’s not in writing, the experience comes with many securities. A male escort won’t fall in love with you (or your partner). They won’t interfere with your relationship.
I’ve witnessed too many stories of couples who shared their bedroom with some random man, only to have that guy stalking them afterwards, trying to sneak and have relations with the wife behind her husband’s back. Even worse is if he Unfortunately it happens. Most single man don’t understand the dynamics of how threesomes or swinging relationships work. They don’t understand the sex is merely physical. You allow your wife to have sex with the average regular guy and you’re likely to find out he’s now in love with your wife and is trying to take her away from you.
Male escorts are paid to go away. They are paid to provide a service to you. Once that service is provided, they leave. That’s one of the main reasons why couples hire them. The last thing you want is to invite a man into your space, share the most intimate of sexual activities with him, and then he won’t leave you alone.
- Male Escorts provide you with discretion and privacy. Escorts operate under a veil of secrecy. Other than screening you for security reasons, an escort has no vested interest in broadcasting to the world about your identity or intimate sexual desires. He’s there to help make your fantasies come true, not judge you for having them.
If you’re looking to experiment with extracurricular sexy times by adding another male to your bedroom, booking a male escort could be the best way to increase the odds of success and satisfaction. If you think it might be for you, there’s a world of possibilities waiting to be explored by you and your partner.